![]() Whoever disbelieves in Taghut and believes in Allah, then he has grasped the most trustworthy handhold that will never break. Verily, the Right Path has become distinct from the wrong path. Love is not enough for a marriage to thrive. Please prepare by doing courses such as Marriage in Islam: Practical Guidance for Successful Marriages and reading books such as Before You Tie The Knot. I encourage you to reflect on what kind of marriage you actually want, to help you make wiser choices. Most importantly, I encourage you to spend time making daily istighfar and the Prayer of Need – ask Allah for healing, and for the gift of the best husband for you. Do you paint, sketch, or journal? It may be worthwhile for you to explore those outlets. I encourage you to read this A Reader On Gender Interaction.Ĭhannel your energy elsewhere. ![]() Be mindful about your future interactions with young men. Know that he is already in a sinful pre-marital relationship, so even if he was meant to marry you some day, now is not the time. Distance from him will hurt at first, but time will heal your pain. I urge you to step back from this young man. It is a steady, deep love that grows stronger with the ups and downs of life – family problems, financial uncertainty, the birth of children, the death of loved ones, and so on. The love that grows within the safety of marriage is different to the love outside of it. I pray that Allah has in store for you a worthy husband, someone whom you can build a life with in this world as well as the next. However, please seek comfort in the knowledge that feelings are not fact. Right now, it may feel that you will never love someone as deeply as you do this young man. Unrequited love is one of the most terrible heartbreaks in this dunya. May Allah reward you for reaching out to us. What do I do?Īnswer: Assalamualaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, ![]() I just love him unconditionally and I don’t think I can replace him. ![]() I know that he loves someone else, as I know his girlfriend too, and she is good in her own way. I am 17 and I love someone who doesn’t love me. ![]()
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